My friend asked my crush and he said my crush hates me but not in a rude way. What does that mean?

Why is your friend getting involved? I had a married friend very ticked off I wanted to date someone. It really shocked me. Sometimes friends have alterior motives. He might want to date you. He might not be interested in dating you, but may not like your focus on a new guy. That would take you away from paying attention to him. And talking about a crush, could make him feel like he doesn't measure up to this other guy. Or jealous crush is good looking. Saying the crush hates you is a bit much. Because if you knew the crush, you would know the answer. Since you dont, you havent talked to the crush much. He obviously wants to make sure you stop focusing on the crush. Or wants to make you feel bad about yourself, just because he can. He doesn't care he hurt your feelings. The crush might hate you, but if they don't know you, why would they? Not such a good friend. A friend who is manipulative, is a frenamy. Not a friend. I see a red flag by his saying crush hates you. Seems very harsh. He's got a motive there.

I wouldnt talk about the crush to him. I'd get to know the crush. That way if there is something there, you will know it, the crush will know it and you may hang out and date. Don't Go by the friend. Find out yourself. Never leave your love life up to others.

Disregard you friend. Until you get to know the crush. I believe your friend has ulterior motive. I'd try to talk to the crush when your friend isn't around.

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?

You won't know if your crush hates you, until you talk to them. They cant get to know you from a distance. Is there a problem you won't talk to the crush? If you won't, you may have limerence. It is where you dream of dating a person, but don't have the guts to ever talk to them. The only way to do it, is to start talking to them. Every time you see them. Be happy and upbeat.

Disregard what the friend said. Find out for yourself. I don't think that's such a good friend.